Journey’s End…
Rita’s
journey through this life has come to an end, and this will be the
final post for her travel blog, an incredible sojourn in words and
images that has spanned 17 years. This time has been filled with
adventures, and some tribulations; with joys and sorrows; with gaining
new friends and losing others. This blog has, in many ways, been simply
a record of a life well-lived; a world well-explored; and a mind
well-filled.
Starting
some ill-defined time in 2025, but certainly evident by Thanksgiving,
Rita began having subtle cognitive changes, which were mainly attributed
to her seasonal grief over the passing of son, Darren Lunbery, in May
of 2021. Darren’s birthday is midway between Thanksgiving and
Christmas, and that season had become emotionally difficult for her. As
the new year began, however, it became clear that something more was
occuring. Several doctor visits ruled out dementia; mental health
evaluations resulted in trial runs with a couple of medications (Rita
had struggled in the past with clinical depression, and bi-polar
syndrome is common in her family); and through it all her symptoms
continued to intensify.
Despite
growing cognitive difficulties, Rita kept on adventuring, although she
was unable to post blogs about these adventures. In December she and
Chris hiked in the Painted Desert north of Joseph City with son Lewis,
and found fossilized Dinosaur eggshells.
In
early January cousin Jerry Crouch came to visit with his family, and
Rita and Chris took them hiking on part of the Black Canyon Trail near
Bumblebee AZ.
Later
in January Chris and Rita spent most of a week hiking and exploring in
Death Valley, a place Rita had always dreamed of visiting. They
encountered aliens on the way there; on the way home, they detoured to
the ghost town of Ryolite.
Twice
they went hiking in Agua Fria National Monument, the goal being to
reach Baby Canyon Ruin. Rita’s health was such that she couldn’t make
it, although on the second effort Chris left her sitting comfortably and
reached the site on his own.
In
February, Chris and Rita traveled to Willcox to stay with old friend
Casey Dennis and went out to see the Sandhill Cranes and also do a hike
at Middlemarch Pass in the Dragoon Mountains.
In
mid-March, niece Shannon came down from Oregon, and the three of them
did a couple of short hikes in the Prescott area, one in the Sierra
Prieta Mountains, the other at Granite Mountain.
Rita’s
last foray out, in April, was a walk, not far from home, along Granite
Creek in Watson Woods with Chris and son Lewis. The sweet peas were
starting to bloom.
In
late March, while awaiting an early April appointment with a
neurologist, and in the midst of a series of tests in preparation, Rita
had a cognitive crisis and ended up in the ER where a CAT scan
discovered a mass in her brain. A sojourn to Barrow’s Neurological
Institute in Phoenix showed this to be an advanced glioblastoma, an
incurable form of brain cancer. As per her wishes, she returned home
under hospice care.
Her
final weeks, while she slowly faded, were filled with as much love,
laughter and joy as we could pack in. Dozens and dozens of friend and
family visited, playing dominos and mahjong, playing music, pigging out
on too much pizza and ice cream, pruning her roses for her while she
rocked in the porch swing, filling her kitchen with flowers, and all
pouring out their love for Rita.
She
was pain-free to the end, and finally, in the quiet of evening, slipped
peacefully away on an entirely new journey, with husband Chris, son
Lewis, daughter Sara, and cousin Donna all holding her.
Rita Faye Wuehrmann - July 21, 1946 to May 7, 2026.
Bon Voyage...



































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