Livin' life
May 23, 2013

It does my heart good to get feedback when I post a blog!  Although I enjoy writing the journal, I probably would not continue without the satisfaction of hearing from friends. 

A typical West Texas landscape.

Judging by some of that feedback, it would appear that the things I tend to write about do not create an accurate picture of this area or what our life is like at the moment.  And really, why would I post photos of a gazillion acres of tabletop mesquite land or of the long lines in every business in town?

Instead, I mostly record this episode of our life with photos of bright spots - the scarce man-made oases with water and trees - and thank heaven for those places.  They help me to remember there is life after Mid-temporary-land.

A changing perspective . . .

Now that our time here has stretched to near a half-year, I’ve spoken to enough long-time residents to understand that some folks like living in Midland, or at least in the Midland before the current chaos.  The reasons are varied: for some, it has always been their home and thus carries that bond. 

For others who came here for work decades previously, the wish to remain near grown children and grandchildren, familiar places and friends is the reason to remain. 

All of them hearken to earlier times, periods of relative calm when the roads were not choked with 18-wheelers and crowded with speeding vehicles, when markets were places for leisurely shopping, when housing was available at a reasonable cost.  This is the story of a boom/bust oil town - feast or famine.

Driving: I’d rather not . . .

I read a comment in the newspaper recently in which the writer’s opinion was that Midlanders ought to be able to venture forth in their vehicles without risking their lives.  I totally agree with that; however, such is sadly not the case.

Since the beginning of 2013, there has been more than one fatal traffic accident average for every single week.  That totals 22 in this 19th week - a shocking fact!  That is fatalities only; I can’t even imagine how many wrecks and injuries that entails, but it really is an act of courage to set out on these roads, and wisdom indeed to avoid them during rush hours and lunchtime, when it is even more harrowing.

One learns quickly to do errands at times other than rush hour or lunch if at all possible.  Even then, it is important to realize that impatience can get a person killed and to constantly be on the lookout for that other person who cannot wait.  There is never one jaunt to the grocery without witnessing crazed maneuvers several times over.

The high percentage of oversized vehicles causes each accident to be potentially life-threatening, yet I see drivers daily who challenge a big rig for their slice of pavement.  If only we could all see these things on a fast-forward basis: rewind and wait instead of speeding off only to crush or be crushed.

I am told that even as short a time as three years ago, the situation was entirely different.  Unfortunately, this particular boom, the largest yet, is expected to continue for an indeterminate length of time and to bring at least 40,000 additional people to Midland and likely as large a population boost to neighboring Odessa. 

It is obvious the existing infrastructure cannot support that despite all efforts to keep up.  I foresee problems in the future that will dwarf what is now occurring.

Some lessons are being learned.  An important one is patience: there simply is no way to rush shopping hereabouts.  Everything is crowded; service is slow because of lack of work force, and check-out lines are an exercise is tedium.  There is nothing about any of it to rail against: it’s just the way it is.

Despite my frequent Mid-lambasting-land tirades, I acknowledge that if I were to be here permanently, I would become involved in activities of interest, deepen friendships and attend cultural and social events.  These things would certainly make life here more meaningful; however, I don't see how I could ever be content without my back-country wanderings that are so important to me in Arizona's abundance of publicly-accessible lands.

The plan . . .

In the afore-mentioned feedback, I am often asked about our plans and have brushed aside the question because we had no particular plans beyond being here and working.  Now we have determined something of what we will do and when we will do it.

Sometime late in June, we expect to depart this area and turn eastward, the goal to be North Carolina where we will spend time with Mom & Dad W.  We hope to do some playing along the way, perhaps some visiting of ancestral haunts and other places that call to us.  I yearn for water - must have water - whether it be rivers, lakes, creeks, seeps, bayous, bays, oceans, swamps, ponds, marshes, estuaries, puddles, springs or streams, I'm gonna find me some.

This will not be a long-term foray; we will return to Prescott via one route or another yet to be determined and set ourselves about finding a house to purchase.  In the interim, we expect to continue to reside in the Totee back in our wonderful Yavapai County until the right house is ours.

Nor any drop to drink . . .

I have learned that many Midlanders have whole-house water filters to render potable what is not.  Those who do not, like us, purchase water, either by buying insane amounts of bottled water or refill from kiosks and machines located conveniently everywhere.

Our water source.

I refill our seven one-gallon water bottles, usually from an efficient Glacier dispenser for 25¢ per gallon.

Our sophisticated water storage system.

That constitutes all our drinking and cooking water.  I can't help but wonder if the streaky residue left on dishes after washing in Mid-nasty-water will ever come off.

Economy’s toll . . .

Across from us is the only trailer rental in the campground, currently occupied by a nice young man from Arkansas.  I have not met him; however, close quarters result in knowing sometimes more than one would want about one’s neighbors.

In this case and several others nearby, men who are here alone to work in Mid-boom-land were visited by their wives and families over Mother’s Day weekend.  I was witness to the leavetaking of this particular neighbor’s wife and children and a heart-wrenching scene it was.

As she prepared to drive away with their three children, he was leaning in the car window crying.  After a very, very long time, she pulled away but backed up after going only a few feet and the scene was replayed.  This continued for a number of other times.  Sometimes, she would make it to the end of the drive while he stood watching with hand raised and blowing kisses and then back she would come.

It was wonderful to see a couple so in love but brutal to witness the pain of their separation.  I shot a photo of what she wrote on the back window of his pickup: “Your wife hearts you”.  I wish them surcease from the economic turmoil that has precipitated their separation.

Rowdy & me . . .

The boy’s health has been going slowly but steadily downhill.  As his appetite declined, I began to handfeed him and we looked for recommendations for a veterinarian.  The first was not accepting new patients, but we located someone who would take us.

Rowdy still "kills" a mouse or remote control now and then.

We were not overly happy with the results of that $200, two-hour visit, but did manage to persuade her to give him antibiotics and sub-cutaneous hydration which resulted in some improvement; however, I am not sure if the boy is going to stay with us.  We are feeling pretty helpless in the face of the inevitability of losing him.  He is gaunt and weak, but still a love-bug and enjoys his times out in the sunshine.

And he continues to savor a stint outside.

At the same time, my emotional and physical well-being has declined rather alarmingly, a situation which has made it difficult to keep on keepin’ on.  I haven’t been corresponding, haven’t been writing, haven’t been doing any of the things that my mind says I want to do but my body will not comply.

Today I am enjoying an obvious improvement which I will affirm is a turnaround; I am writing, writing, writing, making up for lost time by writing much of what has been running around in my brain.  Of necessity, I will leave out some of it, but am feeling very good to have fingers to keyboard.

Connections . . .

All has not been doom and gloom, either, for past weeks.  I up and visited a new-found acquaintance - an elderly friend, Bonnie, of an elderly friend, Helen.  Helen in Rock Springs told me about Bonnie in Midland; she and I had a lovely visit at her apartment in an assisted living facility.

My other local elderly friend, Joy, decided that a yard sale was in order for her, so I opted to help out over there for a couple of days.  It made for excellent visiting time with her & Frank and their friend, Eldon.  As she was winding down on the third day, Chris and I went over to help box up the leftovers for charity pick-up, so he had the chance to meet them, too.

Chris had a whole weekend off - good news cuz it was great to have the time together, bad news cuz he wasn’t out bringing home the bacon.

The yard sale bonus was an autoharp that I couldn’t resist - not your usual yard sale find.  By a fortunate fluke, we found a guitar repair shop that had a string to replace the broken one.  Now he’s got something to make music with that is a bit more portable than the keyboard.  How I miss hearing him play the keyboard, but the powdery soil here is so often wind-blown dust that permeates everything; we dare not take the keyboard out of its case lest it be, well, permeated.

A gardener, a summer job . . .

With summer upon us, my hands itch to be in the soil planting, weeding, tending gardens, so when I had a chance to shoot the breeze with a fellow fanatic, I jumped on it.  In this case, it was a fellow RVer by the name of Bradley.  Seems that this young feller took to the lessons he learned from his grandmother, so even without a plot of ground to call his own, he has developed a little containerized garden: three tomatoes in five-gallon buckets with holes drilled in the bottoms, strawberries in a wooden box he built and a raspberry in another container - all watered with drippers on a timer to keep things going when he is away working.

Very fun to talk varieties, methods, watering and all things garden.  Bradley is in the process of buying his first-ever house after living in apartments and RVs for 13 years.  I applaud him!

This morning, I met yet another congenial young fella: Glen has taken a summer job to do maintenance at the I-20 Preserve, so I expect I will be seeing him during my frequent walks over there.

A quasi-boondock . . .

By the time that weekend off work rolled around, I was on the verge of the screaming meemies with my visceral need to be in the boondocks at a fever pitch.  Knowing that boondocks are non-existent in these parts, we set off to search for a reasonable facsimile.

Can you say dry?

Indeed. . .

Each caliche road that was posted and/or gated and locked fed my longing for Arizona’s inviting public lands.  Every fence felt like a personal affront until I was at war with all that kept me in urbanized and man-made circumstances.

Suddenly, we spotted a patch of mesquite-laden ground that was inexplicably unfenced, unposted, unrestricted.  Not exactly a boondock (you could see from one side of the acreage to the other), but miraculously, it was a piece of ground to explore, so off we set.

It turned out to be a fascinating hike with one of us watching for birds and one of us watching for rattlesnakes and feral hogs in order that we could remain alive to watch for birds.  At times, mesquite gave way to thick dry brush and grass mats, making caution a necessity.

We ventured forth alongside a draw that was choked with salt cedar, trying to discern the identity of birds flitting through the branches, mostly kingbirds and orioles, until we came to an area that was completely divergent from anything else we’ve seen in this area.  A fascinating tiny forest of absolutely nothing but close-together tall trees, possibly soapberry, perhaps an acre or two in size, we heard many bird calls in the treetops but identified few.

Imagining that we were at home in the mountains, we scrambled up and out onto the ridges created from digging caliche and took a different route back to the car, marveling again at how completely dry everything is, yet wildflowers are in abundance.

Roadrunner 4, Wile E. Coyote 0???

Dirt defiance . . .

One takes one’s pleasure where one can.  In this case, because we are not allowed to wash our disgustingly filthy trailer in this campground, I settled for washing the windows only to have the accumulated dirt on the roof and siding immediately streak them up when a little rain sprinkle happened by.  Nobody does dirt quite like Midland; I wonder if the trailer will ever come clean.  My defiant success for today was to scrub the outside of both doors - amazing what a difference that makes!

Dog doin’s . . .

Something’s happening at our neighbors, Big Dog Drilling.  The drilling process is moving right along, but now an adjacent area is being bulldozed and cleared of vegetation.  My presumption is that additional space is being prepared so the well can be fracked after the drilling is complete.

I enjoy watching the work progress.  The drill head does its work while descending at the end of an increasing number of 90-foot-long pipes.  When the reach needs to be lengthened, the derrick man high up on the derrick (naturally) maneuvers another of the hanging pipes into place.  It is then attached at its bottom to the pipes already in the hole by the tool pusher and the floor man who are on the lower platform.

The driller is controlling lowering the lengths into the hole.

When the drill bit has to be sharpened, the entire length must be taken out of the shaft one section at a time.

The hoist, controlled by the driller, quickly pulls up a length, at which time the floor man and tool pusher detach that section at its lower end and the derrick man secures it at the top.  The driller then has another section pulled out of the well.  This all happens very quickly; the four men involved work efficiently at a job that seems fairly tedious until all sections are out and secured.

As the well deepens substantially, there is not sufficient room on the derrick for all the pipe sections, so then each one that is extracted must be slid down a ramp to a horizontal storage until it is needed again and the process reversed.

I have no idea how often this occurs, but I think it fairly frequent because I often hear the difference in the equipment noise when they are pulling pipe out of the hole.

It will be fascinating to watch the fracking process begin if that is what the preparations are about.

A lunch date, a new library . . .

An invitation to lunch was quite an event for me after not having the chance to lunch with friends for the past six months.  The genealogy librarian and I spent a lunch hour beginning to get acquainted, a most enjoyable time, followed by a partial tour of the new facility. 

A tree grows in Brooklyn and also in the Midland library.

The old library downtown was servicable, but this institution at the north side of town is quite a beautiful and impressive structure, inside and out.  Far beyond a functional library, it is attractively inviting and sporting a children’s area that would be the envy of any library.

My interest of course lies in the genealogy repository which is at the back of the building.  Unfortunately, an engineering glitch has left that area without its own thermostat, thus a winter coat is required to do extensive research.

So far, I have been able to shorten my stay in that frigid area by utilizing the volumes available for checking out.

Birds, here and there . . .

Our nectar feeder has been discovered:  The fight is on between the hummingbirds and orioles, both of whom are using it extensively, joined on occasion by a curious cactus wren.

The catclaw is covered with blooms.

When I venture over for a walk in the Preserve, I find that new birds continue to move in even though the pond is down to nearly nothing.

Three life birds for us: indigo bunting (spectacular!), olive-sided flycatcher (didn't expect him here) and spotted sandpiper, have shown themselves along with new trip birds - purple finch, yellow warbler and zone-tailed hawk.  One other - a bobwhite - is kind of a life bird.

An odd story about this: we once had a bobwhite at our house in Chino Valley.  They are not native anywhere near to there; that one was obviously an escapee from someone’s pens, but there it was nevertheless, sadly calling for company of its own ilk for several days before it disappeared.

This shy guy was hiding in the Preserve.  Anyone know what he is?

Obviously, that was a legitimate sighting, but this bobwhite was the first we’ve seen in its native habitat out on our “boondock” hike.

Cha-cha . . .

As things are wont to do at opportune moments, this wonderful definition just appeared to me: 

“Optimist - Someone who figures that taking a step backward after taking a step forward is not a disaster, it’s a cha-cha.” 

So . . . for today, I am writing.  If tomorrow should constitute a step backward, I will acknowledge John Denver’s musical wisdom that “Some days are diamonds; some days are stones” and continue to cha-cha.

The same bird of paradise I grew at home.

Not much prickly pear hereabouts; the few I've seen are in full bloom.

The last of the water at the I-20 Preserve.

We've had some cloudy skies & sunsets that are reminiscent of Arizona's.